Intimacy for Working Moms | Desire, Relationships, Sexuality, Romance, Marriage

Looking for some creative ways to expand your sexual repertoire with your partner? Curious about BDSM? Ever wondered where to start as a couple interested in BDSM?
In this interview with artist and facilitator Zen Steady, he shares his passion for Sacred Kink, BDSM, Neo-Tantra, Shibari and Kinbaku. 
Zen explains the differences between mainstream portrayals of BDSM, such as in '50 Shades of Grey,' and the more intentional, presence-based approach of sacred kink, which emphasizes communication, boundaries, consent, and the receiver's experience. He details practical steps for couples new to BDSM, including discussing boundaries, desires, and fears, and starting with simple rituals and safe words (traffic light system) to ensure safety and comfort.
The conversation covers creative ways to introduce kink, such as role play and different types of touch inspired by the elements (earth, water, air, fire), and recommended starting with accessible tools like feathers or household items before progressing to more advanced implements like ropes or paddles.
Zen also highlights the importance of aftercare and feedback following scenes, and addressed concerns or fears newcomers might have, suggesting a gradual, communicative approach.
Zen notes that the core principles of presence, communication, and intentionality are universally valuable for deepening intimacy. 
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Ever wondered how tantra and kink can benefit your relationship? Curious to learn more about tantra and kink (BDSM) to see what it's all about?
In this exclusive interview with Lucia Gabriela, Somatic Intimacy Leader, creator of the Tantrikink® Methodology, she explains how both tantra and kink together can improve relationships by helping you gain clarity, confidence and passion. 
Lucia Gabriela is also the visionary behind Sol y Luna Festival and Sol y Luna Retreat—immersive gatherings devoted to embodiment, ritual, nature connection, and conscious community.
Through Sol y Luna, she guides individuals, couples, and families into a direct experience of the body as a pathway to emotional integration, relational depth, and authentic expression.
Follow Lucia Gabriela at Luciagabriela.com 
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Interested in how men can support their female parter's desire? What challenges do men face with intimacy and desire? How can you communicate better with your husband? What can men learn from tantra?
In this exclusive interview with Luciana's husband (named "love" for confidentiality) he shares his perspective into the male brain on things like intimacy, desire, communication and tools for long-term relationships.
This episode will give you tips on how to talk to your male partner and what to be sensitive about as you approach conversations about intimacy. 
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Do you struggle with jealousy in your relationship? Do you wish you didn't feel jealous so often?
Although jealousy is a natural human emotion and everyone feels it, this episode teaches tips and techniques to stop feeling jealous, for good. 
These tips worked for me where I very rarely feel jealous anymore in my marriage, and I used to consider myself a very jealous person! With these tips, you can stop the struggle too.
 
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In this exclusive interview with Board Certified Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach Jennifer Summers, we explore topics of female orgasm and anatomy, increasing female pleasure and desire and making it all do-able for busy working moms!
Jennifer shares her number 1 recommendation for improving female pleasure and gives actionable tips for our daily lives!
Follow Jennifer and book one of her signature toy parties at www.selfmadediva.com.
Listen to her podcast SIP with Summers, and
You can reach her at jennifer@summersoflove.com
 
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Do you have sexual desire within you, but not for your husband? Do you feel shame or guilt by not having a sense of desire for your husband? 
This is a very difficult truth to admit and an easy one to swipe under the rug as unimportant, especially relative to other priorities like family, kids and our jobs.  This episode normalizes fluctuations in desire in long-term relationships, and creates a safe space to invite women to explore the root cause of a lack of desire for their husbands.
The episode gives some solutions for moving forward that are sustainable for all relationship structures including traditional monogamy, ethical- non monogamy (ENM) and polyamory. 
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Does sex still feel like an obligation at the end of the day? Ever wonder why?
According to relationship expert Esther Perel, female desire dies faster than male desire in a marriage due to lack of seduction. Women still crave romance and an interesting story to keep desire alive for them, and therefore keep them WANTING sex instead of just performing it. 
Listen to this episode for 4 tips on keeping seduction and desire alive for you in your marriage or long-term relationship! 
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Are you connected with your own erotic vitality? If I asked you to describe your erotic vitality, what would you say? 
 
This episode defines erotic vitality and introduces relationship expert Esther Perel's concept of distance, which helps to maintain erotic vitality in long-term relationships. Come away with 3 tips to connect to your own erotic vitality and to find where a small amount of distance in your current relationship can help to keep your erotic vitality up! 
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Do you know which areas of your body are most pleasurable for you? Are you connected to your own sexuality and sense of desire?
As our bodies change, where pleasure sits in our bodies can also change. This happens during major changes (post-partum or menopause) but can also just naturally shift over time.
Having an ecstatic self pleasure ritual as a part of your sexual repertoire will support you to continuously know your body and be on top of your own sexuality. This will empower you to communicate, share and enjoy experiences with your partner more fully. 
 
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Are you a busy mom trapped in the routine of planning, doing and holding up everything for your family? Do you struggle to find a space to relax and receive? 
If so, this episode will help you tap into your feminine sexual essence, which will allow you to release, relax and let go. Learn about feminine and masculine sexual energy in this episode to increase both your desire and your pleasure! 
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Book cited was: Intimate Communion- Awakening Your Sexual Essence by David Deida.